Hi I’m Jenn! I feel like I may have a few new faces around here, (maybe not?!) but I haven’t done a “about me” post in awhile. While in quarantine, my family and I are really taking this time to stay positive and focus on all the good things right now. I cannot imagine this happening to us when we were kids, how would we have done school!? The internet is nothing like it is today. Anyway, I know that we are doing our best and trying to keep a calm, positive and happy vibe around here! I’m not perfect, nor do I ever claim to be, but I try to share my heart here and capture memories for myself, my family, and anyone else who may find some useful morsel around here.
I grew up in Victor, a small town at the time. My father owned a family owned hardware store/lumberyard in town and my mom stayed home to raise us three girls. We always had a house full of people, and animals! There was always someone that my mom or dad took in to help. That’s the kind of people they are; they were always taking care of people. After High School I went to SUNY Fredonia where I earned my Bachelor’s Degree for teaching English Secondary Education. I wanted to move back home to be near my family, and that summer I graduated in 2003, I landed my teaching job. I taught 7th-12th grade English for 8 years and then chose to stay home.
Ok onto the questions!
1.) What’s your Favorite Book? I honestly don’t have just one!! The first book I cried over was Where the Red Fern Grows and I believe that was 6th grade. I also remember starting to read Holocaust novels that year (which is intriguing because for my Master’s Degree, I created my final project based on Teaching Empathy through Holocaust Literature). Reading for school NEVER felt like homework and I always enjoyed the books. I remember asking my 10th grade teachers if I could read The Scarlet Letter for an independent reading project and he suggested I wait until the following year when it was taught so I would “get it.” I got it. 😉 I loved The Great Gatsby in 11th grade and between all of the symbolism (and literary elements) and my amazing Junior Year teacher, I fell in love with English Lit. I officially decided to become a teacher! Since then I’ve fallen in love with many books, so many different genres too! I need to write my blog post of my 2019 top 10, but here’s a photo of them!
2.) What’s your favorite ice cream flavor? I’m not a huge ice cream person, but if they have coffee ice cream, you know I will try it! Ok I also grabbed this to try too. Very odd consistency but tastes pretty good!
3.) What’s your go to when ordering out? I like to try new things especially at fancy restaurants! I used to be the chicken parm girl, but now I tend to lean towards fish or something that may be trickier for me to re-create at home. Dining out is one of my love languages! I miss our date nights so much and we are dreaming up some wonderful trip ideas to try new restaurants in the future.
4.) What’s your most embarrassing childhood memory? Running full speed down a hill at my parents’ old house and running onto the deck, and through (what I thought) was an open sliding door—luckily the glass part was open, but the screen was fully in tact and closed….until it wasn’t!! There was also a time I used to “hurdle” over my sister’s Playschool Teeter-Totter. Yeah. I was never in Track and Field (for good reason) and I smacked my ankle reeeeeally hard on that thing. Or there was the time I had my middle sister push me around in a doll stroller on our paved driveway. I fell back out of it and my tailbone STILL hurts to this day if I sit funny. #ladygrace
For kicks here’s me in preschool! Can you spot me?!
5.) What’s the most beautiful place you’ve ever been? Rome. Hands down the culture was everything. It was the final stop on our Honeymoon tour of Europe, coming after Amsterdam and Paris, which we loved too. However, there was something magical about Italy. Maybe it was the fact that Joe’s family is off the boat, so he’s so very Italian, or Italy is simply that amazing. The food. The people. The architecture. The music. The food. The espresso. The shopping. The food…I pray for this virus to be over so we can one day return again! I will say that so far the most beautiful beach has been at The Nest on the Island of Antigua. I mean really. Look. At. That. Water!!
6.) What accomplishment are you most proud of? I’m proud that I graduated college, became a teacher, and got my Master’s degree. I am proud of my almost 10 years of marriage with Joe. However, nothing beats being a mom! I have never worked so hard as I did to carry them in my womb and give birth to them both! All the sleepless nights and still the worry that comes with being mom, does not take away from the amazingness that motherhood is. Brooke and Bradley are literally my world. I take my job as their mother so seriously. No I am not perfect, but I want to raise good humans, with happy hearts and lots of strength in this crazy world. I have been SO blessed to have stayed home with them all these years. I know that though times are hard right now, we will never get this time back. Joe and I are also working hard on our business which is tricky because the kids want to play all the time. We are doing fine and I need to not be so hard on myself. Some days I want to ‘teach them’ as much as possible school wise and other days I open the door and tell them to just go outside and run around—aka you’re drivin yo mama crazy! I am also proud of the woman I am becoming. I always strive to be better tomorrow than I was today.
7.) Who would you like to live like for a day? Rachel Hollis — hence the above sentence. This woman is amazing. I would love to be out on book tour promoting that, dancing around on stage hyping everyone up. The amount of women (people) she can inspire through her books, podcasts, live videos, instagram, blog….If I could just reach a fraction of the amount of people she does, I would feel as though I’m doing something in my life. Plus she vacations in Hawaii a lot so that’s cool! Or Oprah. She’d be a hoot too!!
8.) Coffee or Tea? If you’ve known me for awhile or even followed my little old Bliss to Bean blog, you know I loved me some coffee! After baby boy, I seemed to have developed reflux (so did he as a baby, weird) and coffee is one thing I have given up. It still bothers me and now if I try to drink it it’s too much caffeine and I don’t like it. Matcha Green Tea Lattés are my favorite (especially when Starbucks is open–is anyone else going through MAJOR ‘bux withdrawals?!) I also love a good cuppa English Breakfast, Earl Grey, Lady Grey or chai. I also sip on several herbal teas all day, from calming, stress less and good for ‘that time of the month’ teas. There is literally a tea for everything and so many good ones!
9.) When you’re having a rough day, what do you do to make yourself feel better? It depends honestly. Sometimes I need time to myself, journal, read, rest, watch something on You Tube or TV. Other times I need to snuggle with the kids, Joe or the dogs. Maybe a good workout would help. Baking for my family and indulging in a sweet treat. I’ve had a good solid shower cry in the past month and it’s all good. I have learned the importance of self care and the NEED to fill my cup. It’s not always a balance–there is always give and take. However, when I am running on E, there is nothing left to give. If you do nice things for yourself, allow yourself the rest, the time, the energy to do what you enjoy, life really does open up! These are just some of the ways I have been coping with quarantine! I try not to drink if I’m stressed or upset, it usually does not make me feel better. I like to enjoy my vino in a good mood!
10.) Using JUST ONE word, how would you describe your family? Fun!
11.) Who is the kindest person you know? There have been SO many acts of kindness during this Corona crisis, I don’t even know where to start! I think of my friends who shopped for us when we were so scared to go out at first. I think of all the masks donated to us, some made with love. I think of my parents who send small gifts and such to help keep the kids busy. Or when they spend their nights on House Party playing games with both of them. I think of my sister who thought of my kiddos and bought some Easter items for them. I think of how my neighbor’s son who turned 8 and a bunch of us drove in a parade behind fire trucks to wish the little dude a Happy Birthday. I think of another pre-school mom who scored extra blue cheese and dropped it off to us (I thanked her with some White Claw!) I also had a “wine fairy” stop by!!! Bigger picture, I think of all the people who are working as essentials who are keeping this country up and running. Those on the front lines who are working hard on saving lives and also those who are working on a cure. So much kindness, you just have to look for it!
12.) If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go? Some place with a never-ending beach where Joe and I could have a romantic dinner on the sand, by candlelight. We would also sleep in fabulous little hut/bungalows over the water! Any recs?! I’m hoping for an anniversary trip some day. At this point I would just love to travel to my local Starbucks and sit and smile at people and enjoy a latté with no mask. Or even the library. It’s funny how little things really are the big things.
13.) As a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? A Veterinarian. But then I shadowed some and couldn’t deal with all of the sadness of sick or hurt animals. I then wanted to be a teacher! I spent my senior year of High School ‘student teaching’ a 9th grade class with a fellow teacher. It was awesome and really kept my head on straight for the 4 years of college where I had to take a bunch of lame classes (like Oceanography – lame) and really I just wanted to work with kids and help them! I never thought about working in Real Estate, but I love owning a company and running a business. (It’s in my genes!) I also really love getting to work with Joe. It’s so much fun helping people out of homes, into homes and of course the house projects along the way. I also wanted to be a singer or a dancer but mom wouldn’t send me to NYC. (Ya could’ve had me make millions ma!! haha)
14.) What’s your biggest pet peeve? Passive aggressiveness. Own your shit! Sorry for the language, but if you’re not a teenager, don’t act like one. If you made a mistake, just say sorry and move on. And if someone does you wrong? Call them out on it if you must and have it out. Life is too short to be playing games. Some people are not meant to be in our lives forever and that’s okay. Sometimes we have to look at what is best for our family and do it no matter what others may think. I think so many problems occur in life because of communication or the lack of it really. We can’t be everyone’s friend and no one is perfect. If you are just doing the best you can and trying to live by the golden rule, that’s all we can ask for right? Be a good human.
15.) What’s your favorite season? I thought I’d end on a fluffy question. Again, it may be no surprise to you if you know me well, but I am a Summer Girl. I am not sure if it’s because I’m a Leo, but bring on the sun and hot weather!! Joe’s totally not a Leo and loves Summer too. Life is just better when you can go outside and not freeze your ass off. As I’m getting older, I am finding it harder and harder to just deal with this crappy cold “Spring” we are getting most years. It is one thing I wish I could change, but have no control over, so I will just stay focused on the future and I am hoping May brings some 80 degree days! I love feeling the warmth of the sun on my skin. Vitamin D is so good for you!
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Happy Friday and stay healthy!
